Quick Tips: Saying No - When you are frightened by their power

Quick Tips: Saying No 3/4 - When you are frightened by their power

When someone has power in a position of authority that could truly affect your livelihood, it’s hard to stand up for yourself. Perhaps try these phrases when they lean in.

“I am actually frightened to say no to you, but I have to, and am asking you to support me on this in order for me to do my job effectively."

“You are so good at using your confidence to ask for what you want. I’m not as good at that skill and could use your help. How would you coach me to say no to you if I had to?”